As amazing as motherhood is, the truth is that it’s easy for our needs to get lost in the shuffle. In between kids, responsibilities, work, and all of the other daily nuances that we’re responsible for shuffling and making fit—we often forego taking time for ourselves and the ones we love, as well.

Mother’s Day, though, is a perfect time to step back, relax, and take a break from it all. It’s the celebration of everything you do and a tribute to all of the best things about motherhood and family. It is an ideal time to reflect and celebrate!

From heading out on an exciting adventure, perhaps a road trip, hiking a new trail, or renting kayaks—to more relaxing options, like a trip to the spa, breakfast in bed, or an afternoon to yourself—there’s no shortage of fabulous ideas when it comes to enjoyable ways to spend the day. What’s important is finding something that you personally enjoy! After all, Mother’s Day should be all about celebrating motherhood in a way that is as unique and special as you are.

Here are our top picks for celebrating Mother’s Day—allowing you to incorporate either rest and relaxation or adventure into your day—whichever sounds best to you!

1. Head to the Beach

Weather and geography permitting, packing up and spending the day at the beach might just be the most refreshing thing you’ve done all year! A beach day is a perfect way to spend time with your family, and maybe even sneak in a little bit of rest and relaxation too.

2. Enjoy the Great Outdoors

If you live near a lake, consider renting a kayak for a few hours? Heading out with your family is a great way to spend time together while exploring nature from an entirely new perspective! Other high-energy outings include zip-lining, hiking a new trail, snorkeling, or horse-back riding. Plan your activity with relatives or other families to make it even more memorable.

3. Go on an Adventure

Why not plan a road trip? It doesn’t have to be a week-long trip; even a day trip to a nearby town or attraction could make for an exciting change. Or if you live in a picturesque location, pack your bags, hop in the car, and just drive—stopping to check out places that look interesting to you!

4. Plan a Spa Day

Heading to the spa or nail salon for some pampering, relaxation, and a treatment of your choice (pedicure, manicure, facial, body wrap, or massage anyone?) is the perfect way to celebrate your special day. If heading to the spa isn’t your thing, then consider having your significant other take the kids to give you some time alone in your own personal spa. Relaxing in a bubble bath with soft music and a magazine or a good book can be just as rejuvenating!

5. Plant Some Flowers

While fresh-cut blooms are always a treat, why not do something a little different and plant some flowers this year? Head to the nursery with the family and pick out some beautiful flowers, some shrubbery, or even a tree to plant together. Doing some gardening together will give you something to enjoy for years to come, and you’ll be reminded of the special memories every time you see them bloom.

6. Pack a Picnic

Feel like eating al fresco? Break out the picnic basket! Picnicking at the park, on a hike, or at a scenic beauty spot is a great way to get out of the house and enjoy nature together. Or, keep things closer to home. In a pinch, even the front lawn will do! The best part? There won’t be any after-dinner dishes to deal with and the mess will stay outside. It’s a win-win!

7. Visit a Winery

Looking for some time away? Get your friends together and plan a visit to a winery! Spending time with just grownups and enjoying fine wines while reminiscing and chatting about life is a great way to unwind and celebrate. Visiting a museum, taking an art class, or hitting up the shops can also work for getting in some much-needed time with friends. Dads can get together and keep the kids entertained. Fun for everyone!

8. Just Enjoy Your Day

Finally, don’t forget to relax and enjoy the day! As moms, we work very hard and being able to take a day off, free from the ordinary responsibilities, is priceless. Try to plan ahead so that you can have an enjoyable and relaxing weekend. Let your husband know that you’d love an outdoor BBQ or brunch at a restaurant this year, and tell your kids that you’re really hoping for some notes or drawings! Let someone else do the chores! Look for fun and enjoyable things that you can do, and have fun celebrating in your own imperfect but perfectly-beautiful way.

While it can be challenging, carving out time for yourself is vitally important. Motherhood is worth celebrating—so be sure to spend some time doing things you enjoy and making memories that’ll last a lifetime!

What does YOUR ideal Mother’s Day look like? Let us know in the comments below!